There are a few things that you should avoid as a new spouse to maintain a good relationship.
1– Don’t take your relationship for granted.
Just because they said “Yes” doesn’t mean the work is done; you and your partner must work hard to continue the connection.
Many couples make the mistake of not caring. They feel that there will never be an argument because they are married.
Yes, there will always be disagreements in a relationship, but how many times will you dispute about the same issue?
2- Not paying attention to the small details.
You’re just beginning to get to know each other on a more personal level.
Things you didn’t know about will surface, and vice versa.
You should always pay attention to the small details and do your best to alter as necessary, not necessarily to change who you are, but rather to handle them differently.
Listen to your partner’s concerns; they’re telling you something that troubles them, and the best you can do is listen, communicate, and try to solve the problem.
3– Insufficient communication.
Communication is crucial; you’re setting yourself up for failure if you start your relationship with lies or secrets. Be as open as possible, especially about what’s going on in your life; don’t be scared to tell them what’s going on, and don’t hide anything; it’s not worth it.
4– Take it slowly, be patient, and have a strategy.
You’re still getting to know this person, so don’t rush things; take it slowly, and your partner will appreciate everything you do but make sure you have a strategy.
Having a strategy and communicating it with your spouse may be advantageous since it gives them a sense of security.
5– Keep doing what you’re doing to get her.
Make them fall in love with you all the time, just like they did the first time.
Never stop doing what you did to acquire them; if you pretended to be someone else before the relationship began, trust me, it won’t last.
We are all replaceable, and if you are unwilling to put out some effort, your relationship will end, and someone else will step in and do what you did not want to do.
Best of luck!